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Article originally published in Karate International, August 2000
 Norm McLinden (R) poses with Joe Lewis, who has been a great inspiration in his life
By
Norman McLinden
Prologue: Pam came into my office at the
school. I was sporting the only shiner that I’ve ever been proud of. She
looked at me with obvious curiosity and asked, “Why? Why did you do it?”
It’s a question that needs some exploring. The answer mainly deals with
not living with regret, with not missing an opportunity, with fulfilling
a dream…
It’s a warm Friday night at the end of August.
There are two grown men and a little boy staring at the small TV. It’s a
commercial break during The Friday Night Fights. It is 1950’s America.
The two men discuss boxers, past and present. One of the men is my
father, the other my uncle. The boy listening intently is me. I am five
years old. The great Sugar Ray Robinson is fighting this evening. Every
time Sugar Ray’s name is mentioned, my father stops whatever he is
saying and pays full attention to the tiny TV. I know what my father’s
comments will be. “I sure woulda liked to have fought that Sugarman.” He
goes on matter of factly, “I may not of beat him, but I would have gone
the distance.” His eyes reflect an opportunity lost in time. My father,
an accomplished boxer, would never fight Sugar Ray Robinson. This was my
Dad’s unlived challenge. But that never stopped him from loving boxing.
I remember will my first set of boxing gloves and my father yelling,
“three jabs then a cross!” We would bounce and box all over our tiny
living room. If my cousin came over he was swiftly given the other set
of gloves and we would joyously pound each other all afternoon. The
referee of course was Dad. I know for a fact those early experiments in
pugilism influenced my later life.
I was nineteen years old when I borrowed
my Aunt’s car and drove 25 miles from the suburbs to the city. As a
skinny insecure kid it took me a while to get up the courage to walk
through the door. As I did so, I never dreamed I was taking a path that
would wind through the next 28 years of my life. A friendly fellow gave
me the run down on the martial arts and the school in general. A picture
hanging over the dojo entrance caught my eye. It was a muscular blonde
man doing the most awesome flying sidekick I’d ever seen. Between that
picture and the courteous man behind the desk, I decided to sign up. As
I was signing the release forms and contracts, I asked who the guy in
the picture was. He laughed and said, “That’s Joe Lewis, the World
Champion.” He went on to tell me how his instructor trained in the same
system, but I didn’t catch the whole story. What I did remember was the
image of Joe Lewis, the World Karate Champion.
As the years passed, I experimented with
a number of systems. I read all the magazines, especially any article
about this Lewis guy who was a legend in the karate world. One place I
trained at was a full contact karate school. I was attracted to this
brutal style because I was a boy suffering from too much testosterone.
There was a picture of the chief instructor with none other than Mr.
Lewis. No matter how my life changed, I was determined to stay active in
the martial arts. I was fortunate enough that there were some excellent
Tae-Kwon-Do people in my immediate area. I was able to juggle my work,
family and martial arts commitments, eventually achieving my dream of
becoming a black belt. My father was proud of my accomplishments in the
martial arts. He would frequently share his boxing stories with me and,
of course, I would hear the inevitable lectures about Sugar Ray
Robinson, always concluding, “I may not of beat that Sugarman, but I
would of gone the distance.”
The fight is on! Joe Lewis (L) spars with Norman McLinden
I opened my own school in the early
90’s, realizing another dream of mine. A little while after I settled
in, I received a flyer for a seminar. Joe Lewis was going to be there,
and so I made plans to attend. This turned out to be the first of many
Joe Lewis seminars I participated in. They were all intense learning
experiences. At the end of one of these seminars the promoter, Rob, was
going to test with Lewis. He invited me to hang around and watch. Rob
was a large, rugged man in his late twenties. He explained to me that he
had to go three 3-minute rounds of full contact kickboxing with Joe
Lewis, himself. If you quit, the test was over and would not be promoted
in the Joe Lewis American Kickboxing System.
My prior experiences found Lewis to be
an intense teacher. He fluctuates from being humorous to alarmingly
blunt. As he put his gear on for this test, I saw him transform from
teacher to fighter. Joe Lewis, the World Champion, is probably the most
intimidating man on earth. Rob was a valiant combatant, but he was
entering Joe Lewis’s world, the world of full contact kickboxing. A
world Lewis had been credited with inventing. Lewis fought with a
well-paced intense fury. For the briefest of instants he would slip into
his teacher role, shout some instructions to Rob, then resume as
fighter. I was able to see first hand what had made this man a legend.
He was mobile. His techniques exploded. He was able to fully evaluate
his opponent. Rob gave Lewis the best he had. In the end his nose was
broken, he was badly winded and probably suffered from a battery of
yet-to-be-discovered injuries, but he had passed his test and he was
elated. How I wished I were him.
I’ve always heard that it’s not the
things we try and fail that we regret. It’s the things we don’t try.
Within us all is the urge to touch greatness, to rise to a great
challenge, to do something we know in our subconscious that we were born
to do. Some dream to hit the home run that wins the World Series, write
the great American novel, swim the English Channel, or go around the
world in a hot air balloon. The world both inside and outside the
martial arts is rife with individuals who never fulfilled their dreams.
Sometimes you have to knock on opportunity’s door. In April I called Joe
Lewis to do a seminar at my school in September. Before we finished our
conversation, I visualized all those people with dreams unfulfilled and
knew what my dream was. Did I have the fortitude to seize my
opportunity? I heard the words come out of my mouth, “Joe, how about
testing me?” I had just asked the greatest karate fighter of all time to
test me in his system. Joe didn’t miss a beat. He said, “Sure.” I asked
Joe if he could give some advice to someone who was gearing up to go
three rounds with him. “Yeah,” he said. “Don’t.” As I said earlier, Mr.
Lewis is both humorous and blunt.
Joe was an excellent long distance coach
and instructor. To qualify to test with Mr. Lewis, I had to send him a
videotaped pretest consisting of three 3-minute rounds with different
opponents. Lewis was able to technically dissect each round in the
pretest and provide me with an encyclopedia of feedback for improving my
kickboxing strategies. Joe said to call him day or night if I had any
questions. I recall talking to him at 9:30 one evening after he had just
gotten done with a workout. After our conversation, I felt like running
up to the school and pounding the bag for an hour. To attain a goal you
must focus all your energies on that goal. You live that goal. You
breathe it. You visualize it. You visualize yourself obtaining it. How
many in the great army of the regretful had their day in the sun only to
find out they weren’t prepared? Errors are made in all sports
competitions. There is a marked difference between error and lack of
preparation. The Olympic ice skater that blows the triple axle made a
mistake. The out of shape boxer who didn’t take advantage of training
before the bout is not prepared. Being unsuccessful with a goal because
of error is part of being human. Being unsuccessful due to lack of
preparation is failure. I was determined not to be regretful. Every
available moment I had was spent with my sparring partners and my heavy
bag.
After the fight - tired but happy.
Two other aspects derail many of us from
success: lack of confidence, and fear. As the time to test with Lewis
got closer, I could taste the fear. Many people, including myself, see
Joe Lewis as the “Greatest Karate Fighter of All Time.” Anyone who has
seen his famous sidekick knows he’s extremely dangerous in a kicking
zone. Lewis is also a master in the punching range. As I would soon find
out, his short punches were the most painful and devastating. He is also
replete with a variety of kickboxing strategies. Adding all these
factors up, I felt my self confidence buckle. For the first time in my
life, I truly understood the meaning of fear. To train for any
competition you prepare the mind and body. With the help of my sparring
partners, I got my body whipped into shape. What I needed was a way of
mentally preparing myself. I found my answer in one of Joe Lewis’
articles in Karate International Magazine, where he cited a book by his
friend, author Walter Anderson, called “The Confidence Course.” This
became my bible. I used many of Mr. Anderson’s exercises from the book.
I was particularly taken on his philosophies about fear. As Walter
Anderson comments, “Courage is acting with fear, not without it. If the
challenge is important to you, you are supposed to be nervous.” That, of
course, is the essence of courage. This helped me to regroup and
re-examine my objectives.
Lewis is bigger, stronger, and a better
technician than I. Some might think this corny, but I recalled a scene
from “Rocky” in which Rocky realizes he can’t possibly defeat Apollo
Creed but that there is another way to winning. As he explains to
Adrian, “I can’t beat him. I’m not even in his class, but if that final
bell rings and I’m still standing, I’ll know I wasn’t just another bum
from the neighborhood. I’ll have gone the distance.” I had the
opportunity to test with the greatest karate fighter of all time. I
loved martial arts like my father loved boxing. He regretted never
fighting Robinson. My challenge was on me. It was all coming together. I
was a lucky person to have this opportunity. I would not live a life of
regret. Courage is acting with fear, not without it. Winning is going
the distance.
Lewis met me at my school on a Saturday
morning. The only people present were Lewis, my student Pam and me. Pam
was to help with the equipment, run the camcorder and take an occasional
picture. The reason for video taping the test is for instructional
purposes. To review what you did right and what are your mistakes.
Before we started Joe looked me in the eyes and he said, “I’m only going
to say two words to you, “Get Up!”
I recalled a Winston Churchill quote,
“There is no more exhilarating feeling in the morning than being shot
at.” Staring into Joe Lewis’ eyes just before the round buzzer goes off
is more than exhilarating. You are touching a legend. You are going to
stand toe to toe with the greatest fighter of all time. You know in that
instant if you belong there or not. For me it was one of the few times
in my life I knew I was meant to be there at that place and time. My
feelings were solidified when the round signal went off. After a brief
period of Joe and I shuffling around, the legend touched me first via a
left hook that exploded on my eye and reverberated through my neck
muscle. The fight was on.
Everything you may have heard about
Lewis is true. His techniques explode, he is mobile, he is ring smart.
The first round was an evaluation. What’s this guy got? What are his
strengths? Weaknesses? The second round Lewis displayed a number of
different strategies. He was testing my ability to counter these
strategies. As I had seen him previously demonstrate, he slipped from
combatant to instructor, yelling instructions to me. The third round I
met full force the indomitable Joe Lewis blitz. As Joe unloaded on me,
my heart resounded in a loud tone, “Go the distance.” At the end of the
mini round I was still standing. Lewis looked me in the eyes and said,
“Good, no stopping.” I heard Pam say, “Awesome.”
Fights are to be seen, not written on a
page. I’ve reviewed my fight video many times. At first it was painful
to watch. There are all the things you could have, should have and
wanted to do. In retrospect, it was a battle of will, a test of shear
determination, a great (if painful) learning experience. It was a
feeling of accomplishment. I shared my adventure with my father the next
day. I explained that it was his tales of Sugar Ray Robinson that led me
to my challenge. I also explained that I was lucky. Time and
circumstance had allowed this formidable experience to happen. The
factors I could control, the training and determination, belonged to me.
That is the essence of seizing the say. I was finally able to reply to
my father’s lecture. “You know Dad, I don’t know if you coulda beat that
Sugarman, but you would of gone the distance. I never knew you to let an
opportunity slip by.” There was a genuine look of fulfillment in my
father’s eyes.
“So Pam, I guess that’s a long answer to a short
question. My only closing advice is, don’t let your Sugar Ray get away.
Don’t have any regrets.”
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